Source: The Power to Change by Craig Groeschel

Imagine there is a 5k race about to begin. A guy is at the starting line, observing others stretching, drinking water in preparation to start the race. Another one comes up and ask the guy (let’s call him Tony) what he did to prepare for the race.

“Oh, I didn’t do nothing. I thought I would just try to run the race and see what happens.”

The other looks at Tony in disbelief. “You are going to try?” was the question. Before long the gun goes off, and Tony tries really hard to run. He hadn’t run in years, but he tries. Needless to say, Tony doesn’t last for long. Volunteers rush to his aid after he falls off to the side of the road, vomiting and in much pain.

He tried, but he had not been in training. If he was, Tony would have prepared his body by eating the right food, running many miles a day for a few months, stretching and whatever he needed to do to get ready for the big race. He would have gotten his body trained to hit the pavement and run with the others. He had a goal in mind, but he had to subjected his body to a rigorous season of training to get in shape. Instead, he tried to run hoped for the best.

Trying does not involve much. You try to lose weight, but continue to eat the same fast food, snacks and soda that got you overweight in the first place, all the while trying to reach a goal that is not going to come into fruition. You try to get out of debt but continue to catch those sales and use your credit cards that are close to being maxed out, making the minimum payments that will take decades to bring the balance to zero. You ask God to help you, but at the same time, He says he is willing, and is waiting on you to evoke change in your deep-rooted habits that need changing.

Lately I have been drawn to watching interviews with athletes. They have been in their sport for years, and it is habitual for them to get up early in the morning and train. Even as they are being interviewed, they are stretching, taking jump shots or swinging a bat, all in preparation for playing their sport. For those who endure the intense training for years, a time will come when the training pays off, and you see a tennis player like Chris Eubanks who was ranked at least 119th in the world before the Wimbledon tournament, defeat #5 ranked Stefanos Tsitsipas in the quarterfinals. His ranking soared to #31 in the world. And he didn’t try; he trained. And that training paid off.

This is what Paul had to say on the subject of training:

Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last, but we do it to get a crown that will last forever. 1 Corinthians 9:25

• Define your goal – write it down

• Change your habits
• Find out all you can about how to achieve it
• Go after it and train!

(Note: thanks Daryl Anderson for the thought!)

I attend a group zoom prayer group every Wednesday morning. This morning before we ended our leader Daryl asked us if we had been to the bakery today, and to make sure we went. Just like that, I got an idea for a post.

I love a lovely loaf of bread. My favorite type is sourdough. There is something about the flavor and the texture that has me enjoying it, especially when it is warm. It satisfies me to the point that I have to fight with myself not to have another slice (and usually I lose the fight). But think of going to a bakery. It is chock full of many scrumptious baked goods, and if you get there early enough, the items are still warm. That lets you know the quality of its freshness. The ingredients were just mixed to form a dough of tasty goodness that warms your day with your favorite cup of coffee or tea; what a lovely combination! But you have to go to the bakery to get your delectable delights, hence the question: have you been to the bakery today?

Now the bakery I am talking about is not literal, but spiritual. The bakery I am talking about has bread that you can eat, a bread that the inner parts of you need, and you need to go on a daily basis. In fact, you may need to go to this bakery several times a day, many times a week. Now this bakery contains something that will not make you physically fat, but with cause your spiritual self to be pleasantly plump. Here are some products you can have:

• Deuteronomy 8:3 – He humbled you, causing you to hunger and then feeding you with manna, which neither you nor your ancestors had known, to teach you that man does not live on bread alone but on every word that comes from the mouth of the Lord.
• Isaiah 55:2 – Why spend money on what is not bread, and your labor on what does not satisfy? Listen, listen to me, and eat what is good and you will delight in the richest of fare.
• John 8: 32-35 – Jesus said to them, “Very truly I tell you, it is not Moses who has given you the bread from heaven, but it is my Father who gives you the true bread from heaven. For the bread of God is the bread that comes down from heaven and gives life to the world.” “Sir,” they said, “always give us this bread.” Then Jesus declared, “I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never go hungry, and whoever believes in me will never be thirsty.

The bread I got from the grocery store is tasty, but it will not assist me when I need to make life decisions. It will not comfort me when I need encouragement, and that bread is not in my cupboard to give me hope.

God’s bread is different.

It is manna that is from heaven, specifically made for the human soul. Israel needed food for nourishment as they travelled through the wilderness. It not only aided them physically, but provided hope that God is a provider for anything they needed. When Jesus hit the planet, he informed the disciples that it was not Moses who provided manna, but God who gave the true bread, and that bread gives life to the world. Jesus describes himself as the bread of life, and whoever partakes of that bread will no longer be hungry. This bakery is Jesus, who provides sustenance for inner hunger, answers for everyday life, a bread that will not mold or get hard. This bread sustains.

So, while I love sourdough bread, I will daily go to God’s bakery and partake in the bread that provides life for me. How about you? Be encouraged to do so…

I did not know it had been since September 2022 that I had written in this blog. I wrote more in the other blog, lucidity2015.com. So, here is a quick update regarding my mother:

• August: mom broke her leg, and had surgery, which was a success
• October: stopped eating and drinking; had feeding tube inserted
• 2023
  • still would not eat
  • body started breaking down with massive bed sores
  • June 17, 2023: Mom left earth

After the funeral, I went on a trip to see friends, to get away from it all. I knew something big was about to happen, because late May I began cleaning my apartment, throwing out things, donating clothes, rearranging furniture. At the time I didn’t know why I was doing it, but it brought such happiness I continued doing it. Now with just a few things to finish regarding handling my mother’s affairs, I wonder what is next? What is my next update?

There are habits I developed that I am trying to break. For example, stop taking my phone to bed with me, just in case I got a call from the nursing home. I am trying to leave it in the living room. Asking myself if I will visit mom today and then remembering I don’t have to ask myself that anymore. There are days I have so much time to do whatever I want, then wondering what to do with the time.

This post represents my beginning. It’s been a while since I have written anything, so I am trying to get back in the swing of writing. I have books to finish, a podcast to get up and running, and other creative things I look forward to starting. It brings up a familiar passage of scripture:

“See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.” Isaiah 43:10

With God’s help, eventually I will find my way. I don’t feel lost, but I don’t feel settled either. I need to give myself time and flood myself with patience, something I think I deserve to give myself…

Life can change in an instant, in the blink of an eye. In the morning, a person can be nice. By the afternoon, just the opposite. This is what happened today.

I was surprised to learn my mother had been moved to another room in the nursing home. I was not called about that, but I was supposed to get a call. Anyway, she had been moved at the request of her then roommate, who complained about her yelling and calling her names. She finally got her wish. Instead of her being moved, my mother was moved. At least she was moved to a room with no roommate. How long that will be we will see. Remembering how she was when I visited her earlier in week, I was expecting the same, even though she had been moved to a new room. I decided not to bring up anything about what had happened that got her to a new nursing home until she brought it up. Perhaps I should have said something, but I figured since she didn’t bring it up, neither would I. Well, that had to be dealt with today.

The “how did I get here” and “what happened” questions came streaming out as soon as I got to her room. I knew something was up, because the look on her face and her comments towards me were not good, positive ones. She just started belting out instructions of what she wanted, then changing her mind when I went to get help to assist moving her to a more comfortable position in her bed. Eventually she calmed down enough for me to explain what had happened the past three weeks.

She said she remembered nothing. She didn’t remember her leg hurting, didn’t remember being in the hospital or having the surgery, and on and on it went. She didn’t believe all that was happening to her, and of course, me being her only child, I was to blame for it somehow.

But this time, something different happened on my part. I responded differently.

Usually, I take her harsh words inwardly and personally, which aids in starting the downward spiral of feeling bad. This time was different. I kept telling her I loved her, and even though she told me not to come back, and comments of “whatever you want to do, so be it” was said by her, I did not let that deter me. I was actually smiling; even that surprised me.

Despite what she said, I told her I was praying for her. Despite her saying I could do whatever I wanted to do, I told her there were many people praying for her because they cared for her. And then I told her I would be coming back to visit her when she kept saying she didn’t want to see me, that I could leave. Her usual dismissals would leave me feeling defeated in the past, but not this time. I told her I would be back. In fact, I kept saying to her over and over God’s got my back and he has hers too. Actually, that line is from a Steven Furtick sermon he had preached the past Sunday, and it and other words just seemed to come from nowhere…and with a smile on my face! Who knew?!!

“Are you finished?” she asked, in a not so nice tone. I told her, “No I’m not. You will get well, and you with the help of rehab will get you walking again, and God has our back.” (I wanted to say, regardless of your attitude, God still has you.)

Eventually, I left her room, talked to her nurse Chris, talked to the admissions director and got to my car, thanking God for being in the midst. And then, without warning, this huge grin flashed across my face. And as I turned on the radio, K-Love provided a great song by Hillsong that just summed up my visit with mom:

I’ll sing the night into the morning, I’ll sing the fear into your praise
I’ll sing my soul into your presence, Whenever I say your Name
Let the devil know not today
Whenever I say your name Jesus, Let the devil know not today!

Be encouraged…

What does it mean to be strengthened? Let’s use Joshua as an example. His leader Moses had just passed away, and he was the next one in line as leader over Israel to usher them into the promised land God had prepared for them.

Can you imagine all the thoughts that were running through Joshua’s head? He may have learned a lot from Moses and watched him lead, but it is quite another thing to actually be the leader over a great number of people. God knew this, and told him the following, I think, as a way of calming all those circling thoughts in his head:

Joshua 1:5-9 says

“No one will be able to stand against you all the days of your life. As I was with Moses, so I will be with you; I will never leave you nor forsake you. Be strong and courageous, because you will lead these people to inherit the land I swore to their ancestors to give them.

“Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go. Keep this Book of the Laqw always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful. Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord you God will be with you wherever you go.”

God encouraged Joshua to

*be strong and courageous

*know that He would be with hi always

*to be in tune with the Law, or the instructions of the bible, and obey it

-meditate on what has been written

-for when he does that, he will be prosperous and successful

*not to be afraid or discouraged

Then God restates for Joshua not to be afraid or discouraged, and he would be with him wherever he goes; God said these two statements twice.

Today I want to talk about what it means to be strong, and how we can obtain strength and stay that way.

When an athlete is in training, many elements are involved. For example, a daily regimen has to be followed for the runner, from working out in the exercise room to running and following the right diet to eat nutritional foods to keep strong. I’ve watched enough Rocky films to know all that needs to be done to get in shape and build muscle for the big fight. The goal for the athlete is to get ready, build muscle, and get strong. And while it may be true that they may wake up one morning not wanting to do the normal routine, they do it anyway, because they have one goal in mind: to win the race or be victorious for the fighting match. They have trainers in their circle that makes sure all the right things are being done to give them a fighting chance to be a top athlete for the big day.

It’s not a walk in the park to be strong. For the believer, being strong is more than having a bible on the coffee table next to the sofa; you know the one that never gets opened and read. It’s more than picking up the bible, opening it and reading a verse or two, thinking you have met your bible reading quota for the day. God told Joshua to meditate on the word day and night, and that takes effort and time. It was His way of telling Joshua to get involved with what was being told him, to make the instruction a part of his everyday life. When that is done, he would be successful in whatever he attempts to achieve.

It must have been assuring to Joshua when God told him he would be with him. Perhaps that helped in calming the stomach butterflies of nerves Joshua felt as he was about to take the leadership role. Don’t we all need that type of encouragement in our lives? Whether we’re about to do something big, or just want to make it through the next trying day, it’s nice to know that God is with us, no matter what. He promised that not just for Joshua, but for us as well. As he promised that to those of the Old Testament, he promised the same in the New Testament. In John 14 he told the disciples that he would not leave them orphans (verse 18), that he will come to us, and in verse 27 of the same chapter he tells us not to be troubled or afraid, because of the peace he will gift us.

Being strong has a courageous element to it. It means to be bold and brave with no ounce of fear. If we know that God will be with us as we do this thing called life, then fear should cower and quickly disappear. It should enable us to take that step forward. But this is what enables us to do that: knowing and incorporating what the instructions are.

Joshua discovered his purpose by shadowing Moses, taking his place as the next leader over Israel. He got encouragement from God who told him not to be afraid but to be courageous. And if he took the time to gain wisdom through reading the written word of God, he would be successful in whatever he did. So, I have a question for you.

What type are you when it comes to following instructions? Are you the type that looks over the booklet you get with the product you purchased and needs to be assembled, making sure you have all the parts before you get started? If so, you’re like me, as I want to make sure I have the correct number of screws and parts the instructions say I should have before I get started. Or are you the type that says, “I got this, I don’t need the instructions”, then look a bit befuddled when you have parts left over that should have been incorporated in the finished product?

For many of us, being courageous means taking a step to admit you don’t know all you need to know to move forward. It takes an element of bravery to no longer stay in the comforts of life and dare to do something different. It takes a dose of heroism to step away from being a part of what everyone else is doing, and step into the realm of realizing what you’ve imagined for years but thought it could not be done, bringing your imagination into reality. But I have to step back into what it takes to make all that happen, and to me that is delving into the godly instruction manual, which takes me back to that dusty bible on the table, or the unutilized bible app on the phone.

It’s the life manual, the bible, and why God provided it to us. What are the instructions regarding anger for example? If you are married, the instructions are to settle the anger issue before you go to sleep for the night (Ephesians 4:26). If there is an issue with feeling down, Psalm 42 speaks of placing hope in God, praising him in the process.

Joshua was instructed to obtain wisdom, and God tells us to do the same. But not just obtain it, but to meditate on it. According to the dictionary, that entails spending time in quiet thought for religious purposes or relaxation, or to engage in contemplation or reflection. I am all for the verse-of-the-day apps and listening to something that takes a few seconds. But what do you do out of that, other than checking off your list that you did something related to God for the day? I need more than that to get me through my day, and when I don’t do that, my day doesn’t go so well. For me, spending that quality time with God is a daily struggle. The enemy knows if I am victorious in that, he will lose ground, so he does whatever he can to distract me from that quality time. I have to admit, there are times when I don’t win the battle. Yet I must continue to fight. What helps me is to do five minutes in prayer, five minutes in praise, five minutes of reading, and five minutes of worship and thanksgiving. We’ll delve into that more later in this podcast. But for now, I will say when I do that, I feel stronger, I feel I have done something that strengthens me. Let know if that works for you.

The bible continues with the story of Joshua. As God promised, Joshua went into battle, and won, and all the while God was involved in Joshua’s life. How do I know that? Because throughout the book of Joshua, there was constant conversation, strategies provided, and encouraging words from God to Joshua, who relayed that to the people of Israel. His leadership skills made the soldiers and leaders confident that Joshua knew what he was doing, that he was operating in concert with God.

It’s all about the instructions for Joshua, and it is God’s life manual that provides the strength we need for our life journey. Those directives enable us to build those spiritual muscles needed to battle through negativity, punch through sadness, and run through the wall of adversity. It directs us towards God-0given solutions (forge ahead or stand still), while getting strengthened.

Earlier I talked about the five minutes of how to spend time with God, so let’s delve into that more.

Prayer is necessary in our relationship with God. It is not some formal dissertation; God doesn’t need that. What he wants is for you to provide the gateway to have a conversation with you. It’s not because he doesn’t know what is going on in your life; it’s because he wants you to acknowledge you need him to be involved in your life, and his guidance will make all the difference in your situation. Cast your cares upon him, because he cares for you. So, converse with him throughout your day; you may be amazed by how God will honor you when you give a value of worth to him by giving him quality time through prayer.

As you read God’s word, remember what you read as you go through your day. That is what meditation entails. It involves reflection, remembering what words jumped off the page as you were reading. It involves writing down what thoughts came to mind as you thought about what you read. And by the way, having a journal with you as you’re reading is very important, because you can jot down thoughts as you are praying and as you are reading. When a prayer is answered, you can review when you prayed about it and the date the prayer was answered, and praise God for the answer.

Our churches have usually a time of music with the praise and worship team. Is there a difference between the words praise and worship, or are they synonymous? There is a difference.

Praise means offering a commendation. It means to offer a glorification, an approval of what something or someone has done. Psalm 100:4 speaks of entering into God’s gates with thanksgiving and into his courts with praise, giving thanks and praise to his name. Praise causes one to remember with (in this context) God has done for us, and because of that we can offer a hallelujah of thanks.

Worship means giving honor, reverence, and respect. The Old English word for worship is wierde, which means worth. When we worship, we are giving God worth, with the raising of our hands, with the clapping of our hands, with standing for the reading of scripture, and so on. When the praise and worship come and sing songs, the lyrics are to honor and reverence God for who he is, and remembrance of he has done.

Thanksgiving is just that: thanking God for what he has done, and even thanking him for answers you have yet to receive. This is another way of honoring God for who he is.

As we spend these minutes with God, have some music playing in the background, as you offer description of who God is to you, and as you offer praise and worship. As you do this, he will offer strength to you, peace to you, and whatever else you need to be successful during your day.

“Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord.” I Corinthians 15:58

The last letter for the word focus is the letter ‘s’ standing for one possessing steadfastness. The one who possesses this does not change, is fixed in place, and is firm in belief. For the believer, these definitions must be engrained in the belief system of following Jesus.  

When one decides to enter into an exercise program, the mind has to be fixed in being a willing participant. Firmly grasping the desire to exercise and get in shape is their one and only reason for doing it in the first place. Therefore, commitment is key for this process to be effective, and understanding that time and effort is needed on a daily basis will make the person successful. The same holds true for the believer on the faith path.  

Just as work is needed for the exercise plan, work is needed for being steadfast in the faith.  Being unmoveable doesn’t necessarily mean being immobile. It does that mean that the faith level has to be constant in what God says and directs, causing the one who believes to determine that there will be no mental “tossing to and fro’, and carried about with every wind of doctrine,” as stated in Ephesians 4:14. Like the one who has a plan for exercising, the believer must determine that no matter what, they must know in whom they believe, relying on faith to carry them through, whatever the challenge. The movement, then, is the mobility to read God’s word, pray for help, with the immobility of being firmly fixed in believing God will supply the strength for victory.

Whether it is the results from exercising and eating healthy, or more importantly the decision to follow Christ in the faith journey, when all is said and done, the work (labor) it takes to accomplish the goal will not be in vain. The results of both will be amazing when one believes it to be so by embracing the essence of the word FOCUS… 

Continuing on the word focus is the letter ‘U’, and the word used is understand.

Have you ever purchased something that had to be put together? Did you choose to read the instructions that was in the box, or did you choose to rely on your ingenuity and put it together? If using the first method, chances are you will not have any pieces not utilized. There may some screws not used that should have been if you used the second method. I like to put together chairs, tables and the like. I may look at the picture first, then read the instructions, and lay out all the parts before making the attempt to put it together, being proud of myself when finished (and not having any pieces left over I am happy to say).

Do you tend to live life without reading any instructions? There is an instructional book we can all use, that is chock full of answers and situations, including the results of what happened when the person(s) followed what God instructed vs. what the person did instead; you guessed it. It’s the bible.

Understanding something means to have a grasp on its meaning, to grab hold of the reasonableness of it to the point of being able to interpret it and perhaps share with others. But if one never reads it (like the instructions of putting something together), how can you know what is the right thing to do? I suppose that is why Proverbs 3:5,6 was written:

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5,6

Many of us have trouble with the ‘lean not on your own understanding’ part, as we are so accustomed to doing things our own way, even when we know going down a particular path will not work. The trust is in ourselves, putting God by the wayside, like those pieces not included in the thing you were trying to put together.

But what would happen if we switched our trust to what God says? What if after hitting our head against a brick wall we decide to read what God says and follow his path? Could things be different?

I would say yes, and I am speaking from experience. Perhaps like you, I chose not to read the instructions, trying to live life according to my unfounded wisdom. But after much frustration and seeing myself in a continual endless cycle, I have learned what it is like to develop faith in the one that can move my mountains, give me peace that I can’t explain (especially in troubled times), and have the pressure of coming up with answers taken off me and casted upon him. He encouraged me to do so:

Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. I Peter 5:7

So you can continue to refuse to read the instructions and have the pieces of your life not put together, or you can put your trust in God by reading his instructions and be whole, getting a better understanding on how to successfully live life. Be strengthenized…

How many times have we thought about this word commitment? It means (according to the Merrian-Webster dictionary) to pledge to do something in the future, being obligated to something, or the attitude of someone who works very hard to do something.

All these definitions can help us to lead to Proverbs 16. In essence, the first few verses say to commit your way to the Lord and He will establish your plans. First you commit your way to Him, and He will establish your plans. Now being committed takes patience, as there is a good chance things will not happen immediately. If you allow it, God may have to make changes, but He will establish them if you allow that to take place. Oftentimes, it is because of the lack of patience that causes the lack of God’s establishment of the plans He wants you to implement. God says in Jeremiah 29:11 that he know the plans he has for you, and included in those plans are words like prosper, not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future. If we are honest, we may have plans that we commit to, but do they provide hope and the future God wants? At first it may seem that is the case, only further down the line those plans tend to fall by the wayside.

So consider this: in our word focus is the letter “c”; commit thy way, your plans, your focus to God, for Him to establish your path, for He knows the path you should take, full of hope and a future. And wouldn’t it be better to wait and receive God’s plan, than develop and implement your own, only to realize it wasn’t the best way to go? Commit to God, allowing Him to establish you while you are being strengthenized…

The second letter of the word FOCUS, the O stands for only.

Many say “if only I could do this,” or “if only this would happen,” as a plea for help in a situation. And while we all need to act in those situations, sometimes it is when we act that we wish we hadn’t, as we realize we travelled down the wrong road and made the wrong decision. But what would happen if, before making the decision, we first went to One who I’d like to call ‘the One and Only’? Here’s what I mean:

“My eyes are ever on the Lord, for only he will release my feet from the snare. ” Psalm 25:15

“The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” Exodus 14:14

“Jesus answered, ‘It is written: Worship the Lord your God and serve him only.'” Luke 4:8

In each of these verses, there is a emphasis that needs further attention. The first verse speaks of the direction of eye. As our eyes look on Someone, our body will follow suit. Once that happens our feet (since they are attached to the rest of our body) will be taken out of the snare of going down a wrong path, associating with the wrong people, making bad decisions, and so on. How many times we have erred by doing our own thing, when the focus is to turn our eyes only on the One who steer us clear from such negative forces?

There are also times when we need to stand still, and let God fight for us. We may want to handle the situation ourselves, but as God told persons like Samuel (I Samuel 12:16) and Jahaziel (II Chronicles 20:14-17), the same holds true for us today. If we are honest, due to the busyness of our hectic schedules, we don’t always hear, or we do hear and chose to put our focus on our version of the one and only: ourselves. Then we discover we are back in the familiar territory of our own choosing, a place that yields the same dismal results. But what if we are patient enough to do nothing, and instead wait for the best solution to our dilemma that causes us to stand in awe of what God did for us? Some food for thought…

The last verse is where the rubber meets the road, where the essence of the our topic hinges on: worshipping God and Him only. When the point of our focus is not on making the most money, making our children more important than they should be, not on our efforts in making things right, and instead focusing on God, we have won the battle of linking to the One and Only. No longer do we take the responsibility of the decision, it is relinquished over to God. That doesn’t mean we do nothing. It does mean listening to God through prayer, reading the bible, getting wise counsel, and not carrying the world’s weight on our shoulders. When we give the ‘its’ of our lives over to God, He will truly be our One and Only for everything we need in life.

“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” I Peter 5:7

Be strengthenized…

This is the beginning of a series called Focus; each letter represents a topic I’d like to further present to you. But first I want to give a background on why I think God provided this idea.

Year 2020 has been full of surprises, loaded with frustrations, and it has us wondering what will happen next. If you were like me, I was glued to or fixated on CNN, to get the latest on the presidential election results. A friend of mine put a statement on Facebook that stayed with me; it made me chuckle, but there was a ring of truth in it. She wrote of how we need to put more emphasis on God’s Word than on continually looking at election results, and I had to agree, particularly since I was guilty of all the hours I put into watching it. This begs the question of what we put our focus on. Is it on what the latest fashion pieces we feel we need to purchase, making time to binge on tv shows, or just sitting and doing nothing? Is the focus worrying about what we don’t have, or is it on being thankful for what we do have in our possession? What are you fixed on?

When we feel like we are in a battle for our lives, where is the focus? What would happen if there was a focus shift to a fixation that provides peace instead of inner conflict, that replaces depression with joy, and living life in a realm of contentment when war is breaking out all around us?

Let’s start with the first letter of Focus: F is for Fixed

Here’s an example. You may have finances, which is a good thing. You also have bills to pay, and there is not enough funds to cover them all; not so good a place to be in. So there is a decision to be made (and yes, there is a choice you can make); either a) fix your emotion on the negativity of not having enough (and going through all the unfounded scenarios of what could happen if this or that doesn’t get paid), or b) make a shift to a more firm, stable and stationary realm of what the bible says. Here is what could be applied to this situation:

“The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.” Psalm 23:1

“But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:19

“Now unto him who is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us.” Ephesians 3:20

Now there is an exchange, an application has been input into the problem. Yes, the problem is real and does exist. But when that problem is given over, the person is now saying, I have this issue, but I am allowing my faith to take over. Not my fear, not my trying to handle it and solve it. God, you have said I will not have need of anything, and You will supply my every need, according to the riches You have! When we focus on God, and exercise our faith in Him, the peace that mental understanding cannot explain enters our brain, and the conflict dies down. I can only write this because I have given this a try, and I can vouch for the conclusion: It works!

I suggest to you to give this a try. Here are some suggestions:

• choose a verse that applies to your situation, like the ones listed above, though there are many others that will suffice.
  • rewrite the verse, not changing the meaning, but written in a way that you can understand. For example, Psalm 23:1 could be rewritten as Because the Lord is my Guide, I have want of nothing.
    • What does this verse mean further for your situation?
    • Meditate on this verse throughout the next few days meaning, reflect on it, shift your thoughts on it in such a way that you no longer worry about the issue of paying bills (or whatever the problem may be), but instead reflect on what you read: because of God, you will have no want of anything.

When the focus is shifted or fixed elsewhere to what is deemed enriching, when the concentration is on One who welcomes problems, there is a freeness that will help us on our everyday journey. Be strengthenized, and give yourself an F!

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